Happiness and Wisdom – Basic Anti-Aging Ingredients
We can get creaky and cranky as we get older but the research says we also can become happier. I wrote about seniors being happier than the younger crowd and threw out a bunch of theories about why this takes place in an article. I for one am unable to arrive at a single reason why because there are so many extenuating circumstances.
For example, if a sense of humor is part of your genetic makeup is it likely that you will be happier as you age than someone show has no sense of humor at all? What happens when you get sick or your spouse becomes ill or one of your grandchildren has a major health problems? It seems to me that the circumstances of life have a huge impact on happiness.
What is interesting is that as we age we tend to remember events as less unpleasant than we did when we were younger.
Older people tend to recall unpleasant emotions as less intense and reappraise memories in a better light. Even when asked to recall a bad incident, seniors are more likely to mention positive aspects together with the negative.
The research says that the better educated you are the more happy you will be. I am not sure about this one either because sometimes the more you know about the world, the worse it appears – wars, floods, ego politics, and greed. I do, however, agree with the researchers when they say money cannot buy happiness. By the same token, if I am happy having dinner at a deli, how much happier could I be having dinner at a place for steak? I also agree that staying connected socially is important which explains why women tend to be happier than men who are more likely to be isolated especially after they retire.
Some researchers also say you can increase your long term happiness by focusing on intentional activities, the ones you choose to engage in such as learning a new language, or playing bridge, or volunteering at a hospital.
So where are you in the scheme of things? Are you 70 and happier than you were at 60? I would love to have your opinion on this topic.
To your healthy aging.
Ruthan
Ruthan Brodsky